General Conference together. During Saturday's session, our Prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, announced that the age for our youth to serve missions has been lowered. Young men used to go at the age of 19 and they will now have the option to go at the age of 18 (immediately following high school graduation) and young women could go at the age of 21 and they now are able to go as young as 19. Missionary service is expected of young men and is an option for young women
As the mom of a 17 1/2 year old young man, I was somewhat in shock! We are currently in the midst of college testing, visiting and applications. I have been counselling my young man to consider how he will be affected by WHERE he goes to college and how it will determine whether or not he actually serves a mission. Because we feel that giving two years of his life to serve the Lord and serve others will be such a faith and character-building experience, we hope that he will choose to go. We know it will affect his life immeasurably for the better.
With the option of a mission coming before college, I find myself wanting to re-double my efforts to train my son well. He is an incredible young man. He has faced trials and challenges that I cannot imagine having to face at his age. But he has walked away with an inner committment and strength that I find to be nothing short of amazing! I am not sure yet how this change will affect our family and Caleb's decisions surrounding college and mission, but I know it has already affected me and my resolve to be a better mother!
Sunday, October 7, 2012
It's been a whirlwind start to the Senior Year for Caleb! He is doing marching band for the first time! Probably the only newbie to the marching band who is a Senior! The practices are long and tiring and the weekend competition committments are many, but he has gained some new friends and is having some fun along the way!
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Thursday, June 21, 2012
After breaking both arms last year and missing tennis season, then transferring to a new school, Caleb was a little anxious about trying out this year.
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Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Having an exchange student in our home was a lot of fun! It was a busy 3 1/2 weeks and it FLEW by! But now I find myself missing our "other son" and the dynamics he brought into our family. Here are some pictures from our last days with Simon....
Packing up to go home
Friends for life
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Wednesday, May 2, 2012
(a few weeks ago Samuel was cleaning out his room and decided to try on all of his medals at once!)
This past weekend, Samuel received an award from his swim team naming him as "Most Competitive Swimmer". Each USA Swim team in our state is allowed to select one boy and one girl for this award to be honored at a banquet in the fall. The idea is that the award go to the person who is not necessarily the fastest or best swimmer, but to the one who has the most excitement and drive to compete. So, out of 150 swimmers on our team, Samuel was chosen!
That night as I lay in bed thinking about Samuel and his swimming, I couldn't help but remember him as the little scrappy five year old boy who was kicked off his very first swim team because the coaches didn't think he was good enough at swimming to be on the team. They recommended that he take lessons for another year. Tears came to my eyes, because I now had to break this news to Samuel, and I knew how excited he had been to be on the swim team.
When practice was over, I called him over to talk to me. I tried as gently as possible to tell him what had transpired, then watched as he processed it all in his mind.
"So, I can't be on swim team anymore?" he asked.
"No, Samuel, but you can still swim every day at the pool and we will put you in lessons and you can still go to all the meets and watch your brother and sister swim and then next year you can do it." I answered, hoping it would be enough.
"Okay." he said, then walked away.
There were no tears, at least not from him, and the matter was settled.
Over the next week, though, I noticed something happening. Samuel was not running and playing with all the other siblings who weren't on swim team while their older brothers and sisters practiced. Instead, Samuel was WATCHING the practice. He could not be dragged away. He stood at the fence and watched everything that happened. Then, as soon as the pool opened, Samuel was in the water, trying over and over again to do the things he saw the swim team kids do.
Within two weeks, he was swimming like a pro!
By the next summer, we had moved to a new home and joined a new pool and Samuel was on the swim team. Immediately he was a force to be reckoned with in the pool. He and another little boy raced each other at practices and always came in 1st and 2nd place in the meets. The honors would go back and forth from week to week, but it just made Samuel work harder!
By the following summer, Samuel had moved up an age group and was on the young end, but was still one of the fastest kids in his age group. He asked me to sign him up for every swim clinic that the coaches ran during the summer. I signed him up for all but the flip turns clinic because he was currently only swimming one length of the pool in competition, so there was no need for him to do a flip turn. At the start of that clinic, the coach came over to me and said that Samuel had expressed interest in it and did I want to put him in. I explained to her why I hadn't signed him up for this clinic and then she said, "well, is it okay for him to just watch?"
So, he did, for one full hour.
Then he immediately jumped in the pool and worked on flip turns for the rest of the day until he had perfected a flip turn!
I have learned something from Samuel. When someone tells him he can't do something, he makes a plan to prove them wrong. He expects the best from himself and that quality will serve him well in life, whether he continues swimming or not. He is an incredible young boy who will grow into an even more incredible young man!
We love you Samuel!
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Sunday, April 29, 2012
What's a girl to do when her very first Daddy Daughter Date just happens to fall right on top of a previously scheduled work trip for Dad? Poor Savannah was faced with that predicament this year and cried more than a few tears over it. In the end, Dad offered to contact a home teacher or his brother who lives across town. Savannah chose Uncle James and he was more than happy to oblige! Aunt Sandra made sure to double check what Savannah was wearing so that she and Uncle James would match (Aunt Sandra is really interested in fashion according to Savannah!) but Savannah was worried that Uncle James wouldn't want to wear pink or purple.....
Never fear, though, Uncle James came through! He was so sweet and made sure that Savannah had a really fun time. As a matter of fact, I hear she felt so much at ease that she smashed a pie in Uncle James' face! We were so grateful to his family for giving up their daddy on a Friday night to make it special for Savannah. Of course she still wishes her own daddy could have been there, but maybe he can make it up to her when he gets home!
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Thursday, April 26, 2012
Sadly, we are attending fewer and fewer elementary school programs...which means my kids are growing up!
Needless to say, Savannah performed her part perfectly, because practice makes perfect! Now if only she would have practiced smiling!
Oh wait, there it is! (of course this one was taken at the end when it was all over!)
Savannah's friend and rehearsal partner is Olivia. She is wearing the overalls.
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Sunday, April 22, 2012
After celebrating Easter on Saturday, we left early on Easter Sunday morning to travel to Atlantic Beach for a Spring Break trip! We stopped in Wilson and went to church in our old ward....we haven't been back since we moved 10 years ago, so it was fun to visit with old friends!
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Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Ahhhhh, what fun! Sunday was April Fool's Day and like any good mother, I thought about it on Saturday, then promptly forgot! Sunday morning before anyone else got up, I remembered and quickly went to pull out the prank that Shelby and I planned for last year but fell asleep before I could get it done......yes, its sad, but this IS my life!
Anyway, armed with a glue gun and a pack of googly eyes, I plastered everything I could in the fridge in the 20 or so minutes I had before everyone else woke up. It definitely made me smile and the kids loved it!
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